Self-Help
Personal development and emotional well-being for a fuller life.
Available habits
Breaking procrastination
BeginnerReduce the friction of starting the tasks you avoid, and tackle the emotion that makes you put things off.
Tiny habit
BeginnerCreate a new habit with BJ Fogg's Tiny Habits method: make it minuscule, anchor it to an existing routine and celebrate it immediately.
Design for your tendency
BeginnerAdapt your habits to how you respond to expectations (Gretchen Rubin's four tendencies) instead of fighting your own nature.
Train your willpower
BeginnerStrengthen your self-control by looking after its biological base and avoiding the mental traps that sabotage it, following Kelly McGonigal.
Train your growth mindset
BeginnerChange your relationship with difficulty: treat effort as the path and mistakes as information, not as a verdict on your worth.
The 5 second rule
BeginnerBeat initial hesitation by counting backward and moving before the excuses win.
Your priority for the day
BeginnerDesign your day around a single priority instead of letting your inboxes fill it.
Stop complaining
BeginnerBreak the habit of chronic complaining: turn a sterile complaint into action, a request or acceptance.
Separate what you control
BeginnerAttribute internally what you can change and externally what you can't.
Look after your future self
BeginnerDecide in advance, while the temptation isn't in front of you yet.
Redesign a loop
IntermediateApply the habit loop (cue, routine, reward) to transform a behavior you want to change, following Charles Duhigg.
Reclaim your attention
IntermediateBecome less distractible by managing the internal and external triggers that pull you away from what matters, following Nir Eyal.
Choose the essential
IntermediateConcentrate your energy on the few things that genuinely matter, and protect them by saying 'no' to the rest.
Learn better
IntermediateStudy with the techniques that actually work: retrieving from memory, spacing, and consolidating through sleep.
Decide with judgment
IntermediateMake better decisions by recognizing your biases and using simple tools before you choose.
Tolerate not knowing
IntermediateTrain the discomfort of uncertainty instead of resolving it with checking.
Review before continuing
IntermediateSet exit criteria in the cold so sunk costs don't decide for you.